SECTION 4 How to Manage Money“By consultation, plans will succeed.” We all need money to provide our families with the things they need. (Proverbs 30:8) After all, “money is a protection.” (Ecclesiastes 7:12) As a couple, it may be difficult to talk about money, but do not let money cause problems in your marriage. (Ephesians 4:32) A couple should trust each other and work together when deciding how money will be spent. 1 PLAN CAREFULLYWHAT THE BIBLE SAYS: “Who of you wanting to build a tower does not first sit down and calculate the expense to see if he has enough to complete it?” (Luke 14:28) It is essential that you plan together how you will use your money. (Amos 3:3) Decide what you need to buy and how much you can afford to spend. (Proverbs 31:16) Just because you have the money to buy something does not necessarily mean that you should. Try to avoid debt. Spend only the money you have. WHAT YOU CAN DO:
2 BE OPEN AND REALISTICWHAT THE BIBLE SAYS: “Care for everything honestly, not only in the sight of Jehovah but also in the sight of men.” (2 Corinthians 8:21) Be honest with your mate about how much you earn and spend. Always consult your mate when making major decisions about your finances. (Proverbs 13:10) Communicating about money will help to maintain peace in your marriage. View your income, not as your personal money, but as family money. WHAT YOU CAN DO:
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ABỌ 4 Vbene A Ya Tete Igho Hẹ‘Adeghẹ a na si uhunmwu koko, emwamwa ghi dunna.’—Itan 20:18 Na sẹtin kpemehe evba gha re evba gha da ne ẹgbẹe ọghomwa, te a gha loo igho. (Itan 30:8) ‘Ugue ẹre igho khin’ amaiwẹ. (Asan-Ibo 7:12) Zẹvbe ọdọ vbe amwẹ, ọ sẹtin gha re emwi nọ lọghọ na gha ziro ye ẹmwẹ igho, sokpan ghẹ gie ẹmwẹ igho si ẹzọ ne uwa. (Ẹfisọs 4:32) Vbe nọ dekaan vbene a khian ya loo igho hẹ, ọ khẹke ne ọdọ vbe amwẹ gba ẹko egbe kevbe ne iran gha mwẹ akugbe. 1 UWA GHA RU EMWAMWA ẸSEEMWI NE BAIBOL KHARE: “Deghẹ ọkpa vbe uwu uwa ra bọ owa, ọ ghi tota ka roro igho ne ọ gha gbe nẹ, ne ọ miẹn ehe na rẹn a deghẹ irẹn mwẹ igho ne ọ gha gba ẹre.” (Luk 14:28) Ọ keghi re emwi ne kpataki deghẹ uwa na gha ziro ẹre kugbe vbene uwa khian ya gha loo igho hẹ. (Emọs 3:3) Roro emwi ne u khian dẹ, ne u mieke na rẹn inu igho ne u gha sẹtin hae. (Itan 31:16) Ghẹ wa gha dẹlẹ emwi vbene u rhirhi miẹn rhunmwuda wẹẹ u mwẹ igho. Hia ne u ghẹ ru osa. Ghẹ loo gberra igho ne u mwẹ.—Itan 21:5; 22:7. EMWI NE U GHA SẸTIN RU:
2 UWA GHA TA ẸMWATA MA EGBE VBE ẸMWẸ IGHOEMWI NE BAIBOL KHARE: ‘Ya ẹkoata gha ru emwi hia, ẹi re vbe odaro e Jehova ọkpa, sokpan vbe odaro emwa nagbọn.’ (2 Kọrinti 8:21) Gie ọmwa ne uwa gba rrọọ vbe orọnmwẹ rẹn igho ne u gele miẹn kevbe ne u gele loo. U ke ru atamuolọyan nọ khua vbe nọ dekaan vbene u khian ya loo igho hẹ, ka gha gu ọmwa ne uwa gba rrọọ vbe orọnmwẹ ziro ẹre nẹ. (Itan 13:10) Adeghẹ uwa na koko gha ziro vbe nọ dekaan vbene a gha loo igho hẹ, ọ gha ye ọfunmwegbe gha rre orọnmwẹ uwa. Gha ghee igho ne u miẹn zẹvbe ọghe ẹgbẹe ruẹ, ẹi re zẹvbe ọghe obọ ruẹ.—1 Timoti 5:8. EMWI NE U GHA SẸTIN RU:
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